WEAR THE ADVOCACY.
BREAK THE SILENCE.
FLIRT Advocacy Shop with sister items inspired from the SELF CARE line including sweaters, candles, mug and includes a femicide remembrance temporary tattoo, all designed for domestic violence awareness with proceeds going directly to support Domestic Abuse Project (DAP) in Minneapolis, MN and My Safe Space - Global Voices a YouTube channel dedicated to lifting up the voices of my personal heroes across the world educating, engaging and empowering with their advocacy, leadership, books, art, and more. Here you can support my local part of the world right in Minneapolis, MN and the global community being created in My Safe Space.
Savannah Edit is the newest and most special edition to Flirt Advocacy that brings a fresh, next-generation perspective to domestic violence awareness. Designed completely from scratch by my own daughter, a 16-year-old survivor, this collection pairs intentional self-care with a clean aesthetic. Every piece features her original artwork, created to support survivors and advocates who are redefining what it means to support and heal.
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WHAT IT MEANS TO JOIN THE CONSTELLATION & start FLIRTING with your self
Abuse thrives in isolation, making survivors feel like they are completely alone in the dark. We don't believe in simple "teams"—we believe in a collective alignment.
When you support this brand, engage with our education, or rock our custom garments, you aren't just an isolated bystander. You are a single, blazing star lighting up your corner of the universe. By standing together, we connect those individual stars to build a massive, undeniable constellation of collective wisdom, visibility, and safety that completely breaks the stigma.
WHO THIS IS FOR:
This line is built for survivors reclaiming their voices, advocates standing on the frontlines, and allies who refuse to stay silent. It is a uniform of solidarity.
THE ANCHOR ACRONYM:
On a clinical and emotional level, our master graphic serves as a roadmap for reclaiming your power:
F – Fierce Autonomy: Reclaiming total control over your choices, your body, and your energy.
L – Liberated Worth: Unlocking your value from the prison of someone else's definition or judgment.
I – Intentional Presence: Tuning out the public noise and anchoring yourself in your own reflection.
R – Radical Healing: Refusing to hide your survival story to make casual observers comfortable.
T – Truth Reclaimed: Looking in the mirror and speaking absolute, unshakeable adoration to you, about you.
LOVE LETTER TO SELF: A message to you on the front and to the world on the back
THE RECLAMATION OF VITALITY: Our premium garments are engineered with structured weight to ground your style and amplify your voice. The front design features a mirrored secret that unlocks when you look at your reflection in the mirror, because it is a message just for you to speak love letters to yourself. Abuse thrives by forcing survivors to center the abuser's control, stripping away their autonomy and vibrancy.
By flashing FLIRT on the front, we radically subvert that dynamic. Flirting is a spark of confidence, playfulness, and life. Directing that playful, confident energy entirely inward is an act of fierce defiance: it is a daily contract to de-center the external gaze, delight in your own existence, and unapologetically fall in love with your own resilience.
THE COVERT MANIFESTO: On the back, the layout mimics a personal "love letter to self" at a casual glance—but it holds a powerful double identity. The second an observer stops to read it, the text shifts into a raw, public social justice manifesto engineered to shatter societal stigma and demand systemic awareness.
It actively challenges passive biases like the question of "Why didn't she just leave?", honors the historic 1908 suffrage color code of our survival, exposes hidden patterns via the global Power and Control Wheel, and pulls down the curtain on the terrifying reality of global femicide.
THE 10/10 IMPACT PROMISE: We practice what we preach. Every item in this collection is designed with an unshakeable, fully transparent funding model that safely accounts for manufacturing and nationwide free shipping.
For our premium garments (Jerseys, Crew Necks, and Zip-Up Hoodies), exactly $10.00 from your purchase goes directly to Domestic Abuse Project in Minneapolis, MN and exactly $10.00 is retained to build our upcoming YouTube media platform to raise awareness with interviewing experts, see video teaser below for more information on My Safe Space - Global Voices.
For our custom lifestyle and micro-advocacy accessories, our Soy Candles run on a $5/$5 split, our Ceramic Mugs operate on a $2/$2 split, and our custom "Remember Her" Bleeding Rose Temporary Tattoos activate a clean $1/$1 split. Absolute transparency. Radical change.
This concept teaser marks the countdown to the official launch of our upcoming YouTube interview channel, My Safe Space—a dedicated media platform amplifying survivors, advocates, authors, and leaders changing the narrative around domestic violence. Mark your calendars for our massive series kickoff LIVE on Positive Talk Radio on July 17th, which simultaneously marks our very first official video drop.
The Sacred Symbolism of Resovereigned
Set to an original, custom-engineered Resovereigned soundtrack built specifically around our foundational advocacy message, every single frame of this video deliberately honors the heavy, sacred journey out of psychological demolition and into absolute self-governance:
The Leo Constellation: Represents leadership, visibility, and the courage to step out into the light. (Fun fact: The brightest star in this constellation is Regulus, historically known across ancient cultures as the "Heart of the Lion" or the "Little King" star).
The Fire Lion: Represents reclaiming your fierce voice, strength, and personal power. (Fun fact: In traditional lore, a roaring lion was believed to chase away chaos, serving as the ultimate cosmic guardian of truth).
4:44: A universal sign of divine protection, grounding, and building a strong foundation. (Fun fact: In Pythagorean numerology, the number 4 represents the square—meaning a structure built on solid bedrock rather than shifting sand).
The Willow Trees: Represents resilience—bending through violent storms without ever breaking. (Fun fact: Willow trees have incredibly deep root networks that can purify contaminated soil, literally turning a toxic landscape into a thriving ecosystem).
The Koi & The Lotus: Represents triumph over adversity—blooming pure out of the dark mud and swimming against the current. (Fun fact: In ancient philosophy, pairing these two symbols was a deliberate visual code—the lotus represents absolute stillness and peace above the surface, while the koi represents the relentless muscle fighting the current below. Together, they prove you can maintain total internal peace while fighting like hell on the outside).
The Campfire: Represents community, warmth, and a safe space to gather together. (Fun fact: Fire is the only element that purifies things without ever getting dirty itself—it completely consumes the old to clear space for the new).
The Lyric Mantra: Resovereigned. Self-Crowned. Sole Authority. (Meaning: "Resovereigned" is the radical, unilateral act of taking back supreme, absolute rule over your own mind, memory, and nervous system after a campaign of psychological demolition. Standard words like "healing" are too passive—this is about crowning yourself the sole authority of your own reality).
This capsule is more than premium streetwear—it is a physical anthem for those who refused to be erased. Watch the teaser, wear the advocacy, and join us on July 17th as we fund the raw, unfiltered media platforms our community deserves.
Meet “RESOVERIENGED” Flirt Shirt
🌍 Your Purchase Has Power - The 10/10 Purpose Split
We price our premium apparel to completely absorb our high-quality production costs while turning your order into a direct, dual-impact contribution.
A flat $20.00 from this purchase goes directly toward our mission:
🕊️ $10.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $10.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Please note: Because each item is custom-made to order to fund these causes, we are unable to accept traditional returns or size exchanges. Please review our size chart carefully before checking out to ensure your perfect fit!
RESOVEREIGNED. (Not in the dictionary. Explicitly engineered for the protocol.) [ re-sov-er-eigned ] • verb. The radical, unilateral act of taking back supreme, absolute rule over your own mind, memory, and nervous system after a campaign of psychological demolition. Standard words like "healing" were too passive for what you survived. You didn't just recover; you overthrew an invader and crowned yourself the sole authority of your own reality. Standard dictionary words like 'recovery' describe getting over a sickness. They don't accurately describe the absolute psychological warfare of having your identity erased. I needed a word that matched the structural gravity of rebuilding a human brain from scratch. So, I built one. You are the sole author of your own truth now. You aren't even asking the dictionary for permission to express your healing.
The Visual Concept:The front graphic is a minimalist, visual translation of the precise moment the fog breaks. The line-art depicts a woman holding up her own mask, staring directly into the dark, empty, hollowed-out eyes of the cracked persona she was gaslit into becoming. She isn’t fully healed yet; she is still represented by a faint, blank outline—a self that has been temporarily emptied out by psychological control. But the artwork captures the crucial first step of the protocol: the deliberate act of peeling off the false reality, holding it at arm's length, and confronting the distortion of what was forced upon her. It is the raw, difficult beginning of looking at the damage, rejecting the deceptive script, and preparing to rebuild a sovereign identity on a clean canvas.
The Love Letter:
A Conceptual Breakdown: The back panel of the hoodie is formatted as an intimate, unfiltered letter written from the survivor to themselves ("Dear Me"). It serves as the psychological anchor for the entire garment, shifting the narrative from silent survival to public, unassailable validation.
The text is structurally divided into two heavy-hitting, deliberate segments: The Declaration of Truth and The P.S. Reclamation Protocol.
Part 1: The Declaration of Truth (Exposing the Mechanics)
The opening paragraphs strip away the soft, minimizing language that society frequently uses to downplay psychological abuse. It explicitly frames gaslighting not as a relationship disagreement, but as a deliberate act of psychological violence. The Unilateral Dynamic: It establishes that the relationship was never a "high-conflict" situation or a case of "it takes two to tango." It defines the experience as a strict victim-perpetrator dynamic where one person systematically targeted another's reality for absolute power and control.
The Military Parallel: To shut down any attempt to minimize the trauma, the text leverages a fact-checked historical reality. It states that the core mechanics of gaslighting—overwriting a person’s reality, breaking their internal threat-detection system, and causing complete cognitive collapse—are the exact psychological demolition tactics mapped out by researchers studying military brainwashing and prisoners of war (such as Biderman's Chart of Coercion).
The Ultimate Validation: It concludes by validating the intense, invisible devastation of non-physical terror, acknowledging that it causes catastrophic trauma, before firmly proclaiming: "Your mind is permanently, fiercely your own."
Part 2: The P.S.
Reclamation Protocol (The Roadmap to Safety)The postscript acts as a structural, clinical recovery plan. It proves that the survivor is no longer trapped in the abuser's script, but is actively executing a manual rebuild of their entire human system.
Phase 1: Epistemic Reconstruction (The Mind): This phase addresses "epistemic injustice"—the state where an abuse survivor has been manipulated into completely doubting their own senses. This step is about manually collecting the scattered, cracked fragments of sanity, grounding yourself in objective facts, and retraining the brain to stop looking for external permission to believe your own lived experiences.
Phase 2: Autonomic Resuscitation (The Body): Grounded in somatic trauma healing, this phase is simply the beginning step of calming a nervous system trapped in survival mode. It focuses on the ongoing, physical practice of learning how to breathe smoothly again and gently teaching your body how to step out of constant hypervigilance.
Phase 3: Psychological Exorcism (The Voice): The final phase is a radical boundary line. In psychology, abusers leave behind "introjects"—echoing, toxic mental scripts that make the victim criticize themselves long after the relationship is over. This step is the violent, conscious separation of your true, authentic voice from the lingering, negative programming left behind by the perpetrator.
This 420GSM hoodie features a visible outer arm seam that sharpens the oversized boxy fit and defines the dropped shoulders, creating a clean, architectural silhouette. Crafted from 100% cotton with a kangaroo pocket. Get the edgy look with the washed and distressed Black, or enjoy superior softness with the brushed fleece White.
Boxy fit
Drop shoulders
Kangaroo pockets
Outer arm seam
Washed and distressed finish (black only)
Soft brushed interior (white only)
100% cotton
Brushed fleece (white only)
32 count plain weave
Pre-shrunk
Fabric weight: 420g/m²
Side-seamed construction
Binding taped neck
Double-stitched ribbed cuffs and hem
Wash inside out in cold water on a gentle cycle with mild detergent. Do not bleach, soak, rub, or wring. Wash with like-colored garments. Hang dry and avoid direct sunlight. Iron, steam, or tumble dry at low temperature(max 30℃ or 90℉).
Meet “SIgnature” Flirt Shirt
FLIRT SHIRT Love Letter To Self: "Signature" Heavyweight Jersey
The Clinical Advocacy & Direct Action Capsule
🌍 Your Purchase Has Power - The 10/10 Purpose Split
We price our premium apparel to completely absorb our high-quality production costs while turning your order into a direct, dual-impact contribution.
A flat $20.00 from this purchase goes directly toward our mission:
🕊️ $10.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $10.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Please note: Because each item is custom-made to order to fund these causes, we are unable to accept traditional returns or size exchanges. Please review our size chart carefully before checking out to ensure your perfect fit!📜 Reclaiming Autonomy from Isolation
Abuse thrives in absolute isolation, forcing survivors to center the abuser's control while stripping away their personal autonomy and vibrancy. This garment radically subverts that toxic dynamic.
From the front, our signature bold typography flashes FLIRT to the world—a spark of confidence, playfulness, and life. But beneath the headline lies a mirrored secret: the subtext “Love Letter to Self” is printed in reverse, unlocking its true message only when you make direct eye contact with your own reflection in a mirror. Directing that playful, confident energy entirely inward is an act of fierce defiance: it is a daily contract to de-center the external gaze, delight in your own existence, and unapologetically fall in love with your own resilience.
But the healing doesn't stay hidden. Turn your back, and the open letter turns your spine into a raw, public social justice manifesto—engineered to shatter societal stigma, demand systemic awareness, and aggressively challenge the passive question of "Why doesn't she just leave?"
🎨 Design Psychology & Symbols Decoded
Every single thread on this premium jersey is engineered with strict clinical intention:
The Reclaimed Mirror: The reversed front text serves as a sacred visual mental health checkpoint. Every time you pass a mirror, it acts as a private directive to speak absolute adoration and power back to your own reflection.
The Sleeve Lotus: Printed cleanly on the arm sleeve, it stands as a reminder that you can break through the heavy mud of dark circumstances and bloom beautifully in the light—completely untainted by the environment you grew in.
The Transformation Butterfly: Honoring the messy, painful, but ultimately beautiful journey of breaking down your old form inside the isolating cocoon of healing to rebuild yourself into someone capable of radical flight and sovereignty.
The Solidarity Purple: Visual accents compiled in global domestic violence awareness purple, serving as an unshakeable uniform of mourning, remembrance, and a protected safe space for survivors.
🧵 Premium Technical Specifications & Fit
Shaped by contrasting raglan sleeves and an oversized streetwear silhouette, this premium baseball tee delivers a relaxed yet highly structured look. Crafted from breathable, thick-knit cotton, the three-quarter sleeves and roomy fit create balanced proportions, blending vintage athletic inspiration with modern casual style.
Fit & Style: Oversized fit, classic crew neck, drop shoulders, and three-quarter raglan sleeves with contrast piping.
Fabric Weight: Premium thick cotton (280g/m², 26s double-fed).
Composition: 100% premium combed cotton.
Construction: Structured side-seamed construction, binding taped neck, with high-quality blind-stitched cuffs and hem.
Longevity: Reactive-dyed for long-lasting color fastness and professionally pre-shrunk.
🧼 Care Instructions
Wash inside out in cold water on a gentle cycle with mild detergent.
Do not bleach, soak, rub, or wring. Wash only with like-colored garments.
Hang dry out of direct sunlight to protect the contrast fabric colors.
Iron, steam, or tumble dry at a low temperature (max 30℃ or 90℉).
Shaped by contrasting raglan sleeves and an oversized silhouette, this baseball tee delivers a relaxed yet structured look. Crafted from breathable cotton, the three-quarter sleeves and roomy fit create a balanced proportion, blending vintage athletic inspiration with modern casual style.
Crew neck
Oversized fit
Three-quarter raglan sleeves
100% Cotton
26s Double-fed
Pre-shrunk
Reactive-dyed for long-lasting color
Fabric weight: 280g/m²
Binding taped neck
Side-seamed construction
Blind-stitched cuffs and hem
Binding taped neck
Side-seamed construction
Blind-stitched cuffs and hem
Wash inside out in cold water on a gentle cycle with mild detergent. Do not bleach, soak, rub, or wring. Wash with like-colored garments. Hang dry and avoid direct sunlight. Iron, steam, or tumble dry at low temperature(max 30℃ or 90℉).
Meet “Our Story” FLIRt shirt
FLIRT SHIRT Love Letter To Self: "Our Story" Heavyweight Crew Neck
The Women's History Month & Clinical Advocacy Capsule
🌍 Your Purchase Has Power - The 10/10 Purpose Split
We price our premium apparel to completely absorb our high-quality production costs while turning your order into a direct, dual-impact contribution.
A flat $20.00 from this purchase goes directly toward our mission:
🕊️ $10.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $10.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Please note: Because each item is custom-made to order to fund these causes, we are unable to accept traditional returns or size exchanges. Please review our size chart carefully before checking out to ensure your perfect fit!
📜 The Lineage. The Legacy. Our Truth.
Welcome to the historical heartbeat of the FLIRT SHIRT universe. The "Our Story" Edition Crew Neck Sweater is engineered specifically for our March capsule—delivering heavy, luxurious warmth to beat the freezing Minnesota spring weather while honoring the fierce, centuries-long resilience of women’s history. Rendered on an ultra-premium, crisp white streetwear fleece, this piece completely dismantles the double-standards forced onto women's bodies, choices, and safety.
🎨 Design Psychology & Symbols Decoded
The White Base Fabric: Selected as the official historic movement color for purity, light, and unvarnished truth. It honors the classic uniform of solidarity worn by suffragettes and advocates worldwide to command visibility on the streets.
The Emerald Green Graphic (Love Letter to Self): Printed intentionally in reverse on the front. This color represents hope, new growth, and the beautiful emergence of progress after a long winter of isolation. The reversed text creates a private mirror checkpoint—a daily ritual where the message flips right-side up only when you look at yourself, reminding you of your absolute sovereignty and worth before facing the world.
The Vibrant Purple Back Print & Duluth History: Purple is the historic movement color for dignity and self-governance, directly mirroring its modern use as the international color of domestic violence awareness. The back features a raw, open letter to self that turns your spine into a powerful public manifesto.The text explicitly honors The Duluth Model (1981)—Minnesota’s pioneering community response that revolutionized global advocacy by introducing the world's very first coordinated framework (The Power and Control Wheel) to map out hidden patterns of coercion, shift the blame entirely off survivors, and mandate system-wide offender accountability. It also details the landmark federal reauthorizations guaranteeing protections for LGBTQ+ and Indigenous communities while expanding stalking laws to combat modern technological surveillance.
The Arm of Action ("DIVINE FEMININE"): Placed intentionally along the forearm, this typography serves as the literal and conceptual bridge of the entire piece. Rendered in an exquisite chromatic gradient, the text begins in a sharp cyan-emerald—anchoring it to the mirror reflection on the front—before shifting through a deep cosmic blue and settling into a rich, unyielding violet-purple that bleeds directly into the historic manifesto on the back. It transforms the arm into a physical timeline of survival, serving as a hyper-visible reminder that the strength to speak, hold boundaries, and honor your lineage is a dynamic power you carry with you every single day.
🧵 Premium Technical Specifications & Fit
Oversized is never out of fashion. Made of 100% combed cotton, this high-quality heavyweight sweatshirt offers premium comfort and a relaxed, effortless silhouette.
Fit & Style: Loose fit, drop shoulders, classic crew neck, and long sleeves.
Fabric Weight: Heavyweight 370g/m², 26 singles double yarn.
Construction: Side-seamed construction with taped neck and shoulders. Finished with double-stitched ribbed collar, cuffs, and hem.
Shrinkage: High-temperature steam pre-shrunk and reactive-dyed for long-lasting color fastness.
🧼 Care Instructions
Wash on the reverse side (inside out) with neutral detergents.
Do not soak, bleach, or expose directly to the sun.
Iron, steam, or tumble dry at a low temperature (max 30℃ or 90℉).
Meet “RemEMBer HeR” Flirt Shirt
FLIRT SHIRT Love Letter To Self: "Remember Her" Zip-Up Hoodie
The October Domestic Violence Awareness Capsule
🌍 Your Purchase Has Power - The 10/10 Purpose Split
We price our premium apparel to completely absorb our high-quality production costs while turning your order into a direct, dual-impact contribution.
A flat $20.00 from this purchase goes directly toward our mission:
🕊️ $10.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $10.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Please note: Because each item is custom-made to order to fund these causes, we are unable to accept traditional returns or size exchanges. Please review our size chart carefully before checking out to ensure your perfect fit!
🎃 A Trojan Horse for Systemic Disruption
Welcome to the specialized October capsule release. The "Remember Her" Edition is engineered specifically to honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month while using the darker visual energy of "spooky season" as a strategic Trojan Horse for systemic disruption.
Turning seasonal horror tropes completely on their head to demand public visibility for unvarnished truth, this piece represents the peak evolution of our streetwear silhouette. It features full-zip versatility while retaining the sculpted, premium volume of a luxury pullover. Wear it to hit the Halloween vibes on the street. Wear it to slam unshakeable truth into a passive world.
🎨 Design Psychology & Symbols Decoded
The Front Artwork Matrix: From the front, your custom artwork layout—featuring the Crimson Fist of Remembrance, horror-style typography, and a defiant cartoon devil girl—creates a stark visual warning that we are officially out for blood when it comes to the facts. The design conceals our reversed mirror-text matrix, prompting a private daily contract to look at your reflection, center your own autonomy, and speak absolute life back to your survival story.
The "Trojan Horse" Devil Girl: Designed to look like a trendy, fun Halloween cartoon from a distance. Up close, the dripping crimson ink coming out of her mouth delivers our play on words: we are coming for you with cold, hard facts.
The Sleeve Black Rose: Running down your left sleeve, the bleeding black rose serves as an unshakeable, universal memorial for lives lost to global femicide. It represents a beautiful life and devotion violently cut short by domestic terror. Every time you lift your arm, check your reflection, or point to the truth, that visual anchor flashes.
The Secret Collar Butterfly: Tucked safely inside your custom neck label, our signature transformation butterfly is rendered in dripping, bleeding crimson ink. It serves as an intimate reminder right against your skin that survival isn’t neat or sanitized—it honors the messy, painful, and raw process of breaking down a broken past to rebuild yourself into radical, sovereign flight.
The Presence of Purple Back Script: Representing the international color of domestic violence awareness, dignity, and self-governance. Placed heavily across the back panels in a striking purple typewriter layout, it pulls down the curtain on a real-world horror story, confronting the observer directly with the reality of death and the devastating statistics of global femicide.
🧵 Premium Technical Specifications & Fit
The evolution of our signature silhouette, now with full-zip versatility. Crafted from massive 400GSM heavyweight cotton, this hoodie retains the sculpted volume of a pullover, featuring a tapered hem that anchors the fit cleanly at the waist to maintain a strong, architectural "inverted triangle" profile whether worn open, layered, or zipped shut.
Fit & Style: Full-zip profile, balloon sleeves, dropped shoulders, and classic kangaroo pocket.
Fabric Weight: Ultra-heavyweight 400g/m² (400GSM), 32 count plain weave.
Composition: 100% premium cotton fabric.
Construction: Structured side-seamed construction, binding taped neck and shoulders, with premium outer arm seams. Finished with durable double-stitched ribbed cuffs and hem.
Longevity: Reactive-dyed for longer-lasting color fastness and professionally pre-shrunk.
🧼 Care Instructions
Wash inside out in cold water on a gentle cycle with mild, neutral detergent.
Do not bleach, soak, rub, or wring. Wash only with like-colored garments.
Hang dry out of direct, harsh sunlight to protect the deep black base.
Iron, steam, or tumble dry at a low temperature (max 30℃ or 90℉).
““The grateful heart has a long memory.””
This phrase carries a dual weight for our collective: it represents our unyielding gratitude for every advocate who purchases this token of solidarity to fund our mission, and it serves as a sacred, permanent contract to never forget the voices stolen by global femicide. We remember your support, and we will always remember her.
Available on our digital storefront for a flat $10.00 with nationwide Free Shipping included, this micro-advocacy tool operates on a completely transparent 1-for-1 fundraising model: exactly $1.00 goes straight to the Domestic Abuse Project (DAP) in Minneapolis to fund vital clinical survivor therapy and advocacy, and $1.00 is securely retained to build our upcoming YouTube media platform and educational materials.
WEAR THE REMEMBRANCE: THE "REMEMBER HER" TATTOO
Our exclusive "Remember Her" Bleeding Rose Temporary Tattoos
Abuse thrives in absolute, quiet isolation—forcing survivors to hide their scars so a passive world stays comfortable. We refuse to sanitize our stories for public convenience.
The "Remember Her" Bleeding Black Rose is a premium, cosmetic matte-finish temporary tattoo engineered to let you literally wear your solidarity and boundaries directly on your skin. This custom line-art design serves as an unshakeable, universal memorial explicitly honoring the lives lost to global femicide. It represents a beautiful life, voice, and devotion that was violently cut short and darkened by domestic terror.
Printed with 100% non-toxic, skin-safe cosmetic inks right here in the United States, this piece transfers cleanly onto your wrist, forearm, or collarbone—drying down into a flawless matte texture that outlasts regular showers for up to a full week.
Meet “Remember her” Tattoo
No matter what else you are adding to your cart today, this is the one piece you cannot leave behind. The "Remember Her" Bleeding Black Rose temporary skin art is a non-negotiable uniform of remembrance, engineered explicitly to disrupt the public space. When Domestic Violence Awareness Month arrives in October, or whenever another devastating headline breaks about a life stolen by domestic terror, this design is how you visibly say: “I Remember Her.”
Look at the crisis. Wear the remembrance.
This is not a passive awareness ribbon. This is an unapologetic, visceral statement against femicide and systemic domestic violence. Featuring a stark black rose with deep crimson blood dripping down, this tattoo is designed to grab attention, spark difficult conversations, and demand accountability.
Why take this home today?
Make an Unmistakable Statement: Systemic violence thrives in silence. Wearing this artwork turns your everyday presence into a loud, visual protest that demands accountability.
Direct Community Action: This isn't corporate slacktivism. A flat $1.00 from your purchase immediately goes to a Domestic Abuse organization to protect and empower local survivors.
The Perfect Volume Price: At $10, you are directly funding grassroots awareness while keeping your support accessible.
This is more than a temporary tattoo—it is a conversation starter, a piece of visible solidarity, and a tool for change.
👉 Add one to your cart to back the mission and stand with survivors.
Wear it to rallies, community events, or as an everyday act of visible solidarity.
Details & Dimensions:
Size: This is a versatile, highly wearable medium piece. The entire design measures 1.45 inches wide by 3 inches tall (about the exact height of a credit card or a sticky note folded in half).
Placement Ideas: Perfect for high-visibility spots like your inner forearm, collarbone, wrist, or shoulder.
Material: Premium, skin-safe temporary ink that applies in seconds with a damp cloth and lasts for days.
Giving Back:
Your purchase directly fuels the movement. $1.00 from every single tattoo sold is donated directly to a Domestic Abuse organization to support survivors and fund vital community resources. The remaining proceeds are directly reinvested into our operational costs so we can keep pushing this mission forward.
Meet FLIRT AFFAIR 11 0z Mug
Your Purchase Has Power
🕊️ $2.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $2.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Pour Into Your Own Cup. A Statement Piece for the Frontlines.
The Story Behind the Design: The FLIRT Affair
This piece is inspired by a private, lifelong romance with your own boundaries: an explicit commitment to de-centering the external gaze and unapologetically owning your sovereignty, it signals a secret affair behind the world's back. FLIRT represents actively cheating on public expectations, stepping out on passive demands, and daily ritual dedicated to your own fierce autonomy, your liberated worth, your intentional presence, your radical healing, and your unshakeable truth. Built as an accessible entry point for our advocacy ecosystem, this mug operates on a transparent 2-for-2 fundraising model: exactly $2.00 goes directly to the Domestic Abuse Project (DAP) in Minneapolis, MN to fund clinical survivor therapy, and exactly $2.00 is retained to sustainably build our upcoming YouTube media platform to amplify global expert voices.
Sip slow and steady from a mug that feels like a quiet, encouraging note to yourself. Deep black ceramic makes the soft (lavender-to-rose) lotus and delicate butterfly pop, while the glossy finish gives each color a luminous, almost-ethereal glow. This mug settles into morning rituals — steam rising, favorite playlist low, a moment of grounding before the day unfolds. It reads like a small ritual: gentle visuals that nudge you toward self-kindness, whether you’re journaling, answering emails, or pausing between tasks.
The shape is comfortably familiar: a C-handle for easy hold and a weight that feels reassuring in the hands. Available in two sizes so you can choose a generous morning cup or a smaller, contemplative pour. Durable enough for daily use — microwave friendly and safe in the dishwasher — it’s built to live alongside your routine, not just sit on a shelf. Colors are vivid against the black backdrop, keeping the art striking wash after wash.
Product features
- Available in 11oz and 15oz sizes
- 100% glossy black ceramic with vibrant, crisp color printing
- Dishwasher-safe and microwave-safe for everyday use
- C-shaped easy-grip handle; comfortable to hold
- Lead- and BPA-free; meets safety requirements
Care instructions
- Clean in dishwasher (put the product on top rack), or wash by hand with warm water and dish soap
Meet “FLIRT FLARE”
Your Purchase Has Power
We price our premium soy candles to completely absorb our high-quality production costs while turning your order into a direct, purposeful contribution.
🕊️ $5.00 goes straight to DAP to support their critical on-the-ground work.
🎙️ $5.00 goes directly to our Global Voices project, funding the production costs of our independent, unmonetized YouTube channel so we can keep our expert interviews completely ad-free.
Engraved 14oz Soy Candle — "Sealed with a Kiss"
Light a flame that honors your journey. The "Sealed with a Kiss" candle is more than beautiful home decor—it is a physical love letter to yourself and a daily anchor for your healing.
Featuring an intricately engraved bamboo lid with a bold lip motif, this design plays on a classic expression to deliver a brand-new message of personal empowerment. Instead of sending affection outward, this kiss is a promise kept to you. It serves as a beautiful visual roadmap to remind you of your core truth, sealing your dedication to absolute self-love and autonomy.
When you light this warm, soothing soy blend, let it illuminate the pillars of your power:
Fierce Autonomy — Reclaiming absolute control over your choices.
Liberated Worth — Unlocking value on your own terms.
Intentional Presence — Tuning out the noise to focus inward.
Radical Healing — Owning your survival story proudly.
Truth Reclaimed — Speaking unshakeable adoration to your reflection.
Set it on your dresser, mirror ledge, or workspace as a continuous reminder that your worth is non-negotiable.
Warm light and a gentle fragrance settle the room. This 14oz soy candle burns cleanly for 70–90 hours, filling quiet nights with a long-lasting, toxin-free scent. The smooth glass vessel and engraved bamboo lid add a touch of modern warmth; when the wax is gone, the jar becomes a little keepsake — a vase, storage jar, or bedside catchall. Handcrafted in the USA from 100% natural soy wax and a cotton wick, it’s made with care and attention to safety (ASTM compliant). The engraved bamboo lid carries a playful ‘sealed with a kiss’ motif, giving the candle personality and presence on a dresser, shelf, or coffee table. Clear safety guidance is included: keep away from children, pets, and flammable items.
Product features
- 100% natural soy wax with a cotton wick — non-toxic and phthalate/paraben-free
- Long burn time: approximately 70–90 hours
- Reusable glass jar — cleans up to become decor or storage
- Engraved bamboo lid with ‘sealed with a kiss’ design
- Made in USA (components globally sourced) and ASTM safety compliant
Care instructions
- Burn within sight. Keep away from flammables. Keep away from children and pets.
Walk in Integrity
True advocacy is a lifestyle, not an afterthought. Every item in this capsule collection is engineered to serve as a physical anchor for your mental boundaries—allowing you to actively support survivor healing networks while radically taking care of your own headspace in the process.
The Apparel Matrix: Putting on our heavyweight, reversed-text jerseys and hoodies signs an immediate, private daily contract with your reflection. The message stays a protective secret to the casual public, but the moment you step in front of a mirror, the matrix flips—forcing you to speak absolute adoration and unshakeable worth straight back to yourself.
The Somatic Rituals: Slipping your morning brew into the black FLIRT Affair Mug or striking a match to light the FLIRT Flare Candle pulls your nervous system out of heavy survival autopilot. Use every single sip and the flicker of light as a visceral, grounding checkpoint to tune out the external noise of a chaotic room and consciously choose your focus, to flirt with your self.
The Skin-Art Memorial: Wearing our "Remember Her" Bleeding Black Rose Tattoo on your wrist, inner forearm, or collarbone turns your body into a living statement of human solidarity. It is a striking, beautiful streetwear art piece that serves as an undeniable conversation starter—designed to stop bystanders in their tracks, drop the corporate curtain of silence, and give you the floor to proudly speak her truth, tell her story, remember her.
We refuse to let a passive world minimize or sanitize these survival stories to keep casual observers comfortable. Whether you are matching a premium garment with our high-end accessories, or dropping a tattoo sheet into your cart as an affordable, high-impact statement of pure devotion—this is how we connect the stars of a global collective that refuses to stay quiet.
AMPLIFY: Spread the Word.
True advocacy is a chain reaction. Do not let the message stop on your screen.
LinkedIn: Post this link to your professional timeline. Invite your colleagues, cohorts, and clinical circles to rally behind a peer-led social justice campaign that honors survival stories and builds a raw, honest multimedia platform for expert voices.
Facebook: Drop the link directly into your social work cohorts, clinical practice groups, or community advocacy forums where professionals gather to resource-share.
Instagram & TikTok: Post a screenshot of your cart or your favorite design panel right now using the tag @JoinTheConstellation.
✨ INVITE: Connect the Stars. Send this exact page to three people in your circle who refuse to tolerate the status quo. Tell them:
"I’m connecting my star to this constellation. Join me.”
Honestly, the absolute best way you can champion this social justice movement with us is simply by spreading the word!
Sharing our direct link (JoinTheConstellation.com) with your cohorts, clinical circles, or tagging us on your stories helps us shatter the silence, get these message pieces onto more bodies, and fund survivor therapy on the frontlines.
Thank you for standing in solidarity with us ~ “A Grateful heart has a long memory”
NO MORE BYSTANDERS.
CHOOSE ACTION.
choose compassion.
📦 Shipping & Returns
Made Fresh & Packed with Love
To bring you a mix of unique items, we partner with specialized creators to print our books, clothing, and custom goods the moment you order them. Other special items—like our rose tattoos—are packaged and shipped directly by us!
Because almost everything in our shop is custom-made just for you, we aren't able to accept traditional returns or size exchanges. Because all apparel items are custom-made to order and cannot be exchanged, please carefully review our sizing chart before purchasing to ensure the perfect fit.
Our 100% Quality Guarantee
We want you to absolutely love your order! If anything arrives damaged, defective, or misprinted, please don't worry. Just send us a quick photo of the issue within 14 days of delivery, and we will gladly arrange a brand-new replacement for you at zero extra cost.
When Will My Order Arrive?
Custom & Printed Goods (Books, Apparel, Candles): Please allow 2 to 5 business days for creation, and another 2 to 5 business days for standard shipping. They will generally arrive within 5 to 10 business days.
Hand-Shipped Items (Rose Tattoos): These are sent out directly from our hands to yours! They typically ship within 1 to 3 business days and arrive in 3 to 7 business days.
Note: Because your items come from different printing wizards and our own shop, your order might arrive in separate, happy packages!